In Bed With Alexa

Fat and Fabulous: Bold, Beautiful, and Unapologetically You (ft. @msgiggles)

I'm joined by the incredible Megan, known as @msgigggles, a fierce fat activist and self-proclaimed hottest whale in the ocean. Together, we embark on a journey of empowerment, discussing the nuances of reclaiming the word "fat" and challenging societal beauty standards.
Megan fearlessly dives into the harsh reality of the fashion industry's lack of space for plus-sized individuals and offers invaluable insights on what slim people can do to support inclusivity. We explore the complexities of body confidence and share tips on how to become more self-assured in a world that often dictates beauty standards.
But our conversation doesn't stop there! We delve into topics of queerness, the importance of being a supportive "girl's girl," and our mutual love for lingerie as a form of self-expression and empowerment.

Naked Comedy, COVID Gloryholes & Living Without Shame (ft. Billy Procida)

I sit down with Billy Procida, the host of The Manwhore Podcast and a seasoned comedian. In this revealing conversation, Billy opens up about his journey from growing up without sexual shame to becoming a figure in the world of sex positivity and comedy.
We delve into other chapters of Billy's past, from enduring bullying up until graduating high school to struggling to escalate casual relationships despite his active sex life. Billy shares candid anecdotes about setting up a gloryhole during the COVID-19 pandemic following NYC's sexual health directives, shedding light on the unexpected twists life can throw our way.
Billy takes us on a humorous ride through his days of webcam work for money, his transition to OnlyFans, and his experiences hosting his own naked comedy show. We also explore Billy's evolving relationship with his body and its impact on his sex life.

Exploring Shibari and Self-Expression (ft. Maxwell Fierce)

In this episode I'm joined by Maxwell Fierce, a non-binary rope rigger, educator, performer, and tattoo artist, for a deep dive into the world of Shibari.
Maxwell brings their wealth of experience to the table as we explore Shibari from every angle. We delve into the nitty-gritty of rope play, discussing how it serves as more than just a kink, but a pathway to self-expression and body confidence. From the intricacies of finding a trustworthy top to the risks involved in rope play, we leave no stone unturned.
But our conversation goes beyond the technicalities as we ponder the profound impact of Shibari on personal growth and liberation. Max shares insightful anecdotes on how Shibari can unlock hidden desires and help individuals embrace their true selves.
As an added treat, Maxwell throws in some playful tips on discovering your "porn name." Go watch the YouTube video for extra footage and a little rope demo!

Bisexuality, Community & Finding Yourself (ft. Dr. Varuna)

Welcome to Season 2 of "In Bed With Alexa"! In this debut episode, join me for a dynamic conversation with Dr. Varuna, a distinguished sexual health expert and Allure Magazine's sex columnist, as we delve deep into the realms of sexual discovery and self-acceptance.
 
Dr. Varuna shares invaluable insights garnered from years of experience, covering a spectrum of topics. From the importance of finding community to navigating the challenges of growing up in a sex-negative culture, we explore the intricate journey of embracing one's identity, particularly in moments when you might not feel "bi enough."
 
Together, we tackle questions about the dynamics of attending sex parties, whether it's okay to simply watch (honorable mention to Venus Cuffs), and the evolving landscape of body hair acceptance. We'll even dive into the realm of TikTok trends and their impact on modern sexual discourse.
 
Throughout our conversation, Dr. Varuna emphasizes the significance of advocating for your pleasure and if you need orgasms for truly fulfilling sexual experiences.

I WENT ON A SWINGERS CRUISE

Welcome to a bonus solo episode of "In Bed With Alexa"! Today, I'm spilling all the juicy details from my recent swingers cruise adventure.
I'm dishing on everyone I played with, from the 25 year old gorgeous bi woman to the oldest person I have played with. I'll give you the lowdown on the vibe of the ship, the activities that kept me entertained, and spill the tea on how easy (or not) it was to find people to swing with.
We'll chat about the swinging hotspots onboard, dish on the pool parties where things really heated up, and I'll even sneak you into the playroom to see what went down behind closed doors.

What It's Like To Own a Sex Dungeon (ft. Miss Shayla)

Join me for an eye-opening discussion as I sit down with Mistress Shayla Lange, the owner of New York's largest female-owned dungeon, to delve into the intriguing world of BDSM and professional domination.
In this episode, we explore the inner workings of these mysterious spaces. Shayla provides fascinating insights into what her dungeon looks like, what happens during sessions, and the diverse range of requests clients make.
But that's not all – we dive deeper into the nuances of BDSM, discussing common times that dungeons are booked, as well as the ingenious use of mundane objects for inflicting pain. Shayla also sheds light on the taboo topic of water sports and offers invaluable advice for aspiring pro dommes.
Tune in for a captivating conversation that demystifies BDSM, reveals the secrets of dungeon life, and provides practical tips for those looking to explore or enter the world of professional domination.

Royal Care: Grooming Secrets and Condom Confidence (ft. Neil Mehta)

Get ready for a dynamic conversation as I sit down with Neil Mehta, CEO and Founder of Royal Intimacy, to delve into the intricacies of personal care and cultural influences.
In this episode, we kick things off by discussing the paramount importance of high-quality ingredients in the products we use for intimacy and grooming. Neil sheds light on why it's crucial to be mindful of what we put on our bodies and shares insights from his expertise in the field.
But the conversation doesn't stop there – we delve into deeper topics, such as navigating the unique experiences of growing up with Indian parents and the impact it has on our perceptions of intimacy. We also tackle tough questions, including whether individuals should lower their standards and how to gracefully handle rejection in relationships.
And of course, we can't forget about the practical aspects of intimacy – Neil shares invaluable tips on staying aroused and maintaining pleasure while using condoms, ensuring that every moment of intimacy is enjoyable and fulfilling.

Dry Humping: A Guide to Dating, Relating, and Hooking Up Without the Booze (ft. Tawny Lara)

Join me and Tawny Lara, author of "Dry Humping: A Guide to Dating, Relating, and Hooking Up Without the Booze," for a candid conversation that challenges societal norms around alcohol and intimacy.
In this episode, we explore the implications of alcohol on our sex lives and relationships, shedding light on who might benefit from rethinking their relationship with alcohol. Tawny shares invaluable insights on how to navigate dating and intimacy without relying on alcohol, whether you're single or in a committed partnership.
Discover practical tips for approaching sober sex with confidence and learn how to foster deeper connections with your partner while staying alcohol-free. Tune in for an empowering discussion that proves you can still have amazing, fulfilling sex without the booze.
Check out her new mocktail drink here! 
 
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Cirque du Squirt: Squirting 101, Domination, and Sexual Liberation (ft. Lola Jean)

Join me and Lola Jean, holder of the volume squirt world record, as we explore the fascinating world of squirting and beyond.
In this episode, we leave no squirt unturned. Lola Jean shares her expertise on who can do it, how it happens, and how to react when someone else experiences it. We also delve into the two types of squirting, shedding light on this often misunderstood phenomenon.
But that's not all – we also dive into the realm of BDSM and kink, discussing how to vet a good dom(me), empowering individuals to become one and her own personal experiences. Lola Jean dispels misconceptions surrounding being a brat and shares insights into her famous event, Cirque du Squirt.

Beyond Satisfaction: Becoming a Better Lover, Squirting Secrets, and Overcoming Insecurities (ft. Kenneth Play)

Join me and Kenneth Play, author of "Beyond Satisfied," as we delve into the intricacies of sexual confidence and resilience.
 
Once insecure about his penis size, he now helps other discover the secrets to becoming a better lover, including the often-overrated art of squirting (and yes, we even demonstrate the position—clothed, of course!). Plus, learn how to ask for consent, navigate the inevitable bumps on the road to intimacy, including how to get better at handling rejection.
 
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